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In today's world, when parents try to control every aspect of their child's life, sometimes they forget that children are individuals with their own dreams, values and talents.
Instead of opening the world to them and letting them express themselves, some parents try to define their future before they even understand who they are.
Negative parenting attitudes that are unconsciously instilled by parents, then their children are forced fight against the subconscious program of parents. Instead of imposing your attitudes on children about the future, you should create conditions for the development of your own ideas, goals and dreams.
And if parents do not stop imposing their wishes, in in the future, this may result in a rebellion against everyone. What's more, as a result, the child may have problems with choosing a profession, – explains presenter and psychologist Dmytro Karpachev.
Thus, attitudes about the child's future will not be about restrictions, but about support and development. Children should be helped to find their own way in this big world, because it is better to have a happy and satisfied child who follows his dreams than a dissatisfied copy of the “ideal”.
Dmytro Karpachev emphasizes that it is important for the formation of a positive parental attitude support the child and believe in his abilities. This will help her develop and achieve success.
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