Taken from life. “You must be milder, more favorable”: otherwise you will discourage your son and daughter -in -law and you will be alone

For six months, my sister has been pouring into my ear theory of universal love and understanding, urging me to gently treat my son and his wife. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/05654a/620x0/1/0/2025/02/07/tagas96cdj7dqux8j2zbnz1gf8r1ctr56iitnepa.jpg" alt = "Theciow, source: pexels" styles = "background-color: rgba (114,109,98.1)" > < p > but I don't have such a desire, even under threat that the young will stop contacting me.

< p > m & oacute; j son will be thirty this year, married three years ago, and a year ago he became a happy father. Now he works to support the family himself, because the daughter -in -law is on maternity leave. Actually, I don't mind how they live if it wasn't for one thing — Young people live with me. < p > at the beginning they rented a flat, they wanted to save on their own house, but pregnancy mixed up all the cards. I did not interfere in their affairs, but when M & Amp; Oacute; J came and asked what to do, now when his wife was pregnant, I expressed my point of view. I ordered to get rid of the child, work harder and take a mortgage.

< P >M & oacute; j son listened to me, but he and his wife Wok & oacute; They decided that the daughter -in -law would give birth. My daughter -in -law insisted that they need a child here and now, otherwise she would be behind P & oacute; She was twenty -five at the time of her pregnancy. Nowadays, people are eagerly giving up at the age of thirty -five. But I wasn't going to jump in front of the locomotive, so I was silent.

< p > m & oacute; j son heard my opinion, but his life is his, his family is also his and it is not me that I set the rules there. Then M&P; Oacute; J Son came to ask to live with me. I live alone in a small two -room apartment. Fortunately, both rooms are isolated, one is my bedroom, and the other is a kind of living room. The second room & oacute; j is smaller, so I offered it to young people. < p > This option did not like the daughter -in -law, so I told her that they could always go to her parent & oacute; It did not suit her, because in the matchmaker, apart from the big house, there is also a great bypass and cow to dump. She couldn't lie there with a stomach to g & oacute; < p > with their approach, I can't listen to my sister and treat this dw & oacute; jki gently. And so I will not get any help from them, and I do not intend to be the right person all the time and listen to the dissatisfaction of the daughter -in -law. M & oacute; j son of pr & oacute; is afraid to maneuver between me and my wife. As in this situation, I can seriously expect help in old age ?

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