Taken from life. “The daughter -in -law said that I was not welcome in their home”: and yet I gave them for an apartment

I have always believed that family is strength. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/6f96dc/620x0/1/0/2025/03/25/bvyw7pb2wpwvvyohav6jnguty3wlkpyjieaasiyei.jpg" alt = "from life taken." Quot; daughter -in -law said that I am not welcome in their home & quot;: And yet I gave them for an apartment " styles = "background-color: rgba (92,83,72.1)" > < p > that if someone from loved ones is better & Amp; Ndash; We are all happy. If someone is harder to do & ndash; we support

< p > When M & Amp; Oacute; J son and wife began to cooperate & oacute; I did everything with my husband to help them & c.

< p > We sold our plot, we gave up the renovation of the kitchen, we postponed our plans & on p & oacute; < p > because children are more important.

< p > and then these words were spoken. < p > — & AMP; BDQUO; Have you rings earlier. We do not want unexpected visits. & Amp;

< p > A moment p & oacute; more:

< p > — & AMP; BDQUO; It's our home. Please respect this. & Amp;

< p > I felt as if someone had hit my face.

< p > I gave them money for my own contribution.

< p > This help allowed them to get on their feet.

< P >I sat with my granddaughter when they were at work, I washed his clothes, cooked dinners for the freezer.

< p > I did not expect gratitude. < p > but I did not expect such indifference.

< p > at the beginning I thought it could be just a bad day.

< p > that it may have a break, they were tired.

< p > but p & oacute; son called and said in a calm tone:

< p > — & AMP; Bdquo; Mom, Agnieszka is hard to enter without announcement. She feels uncomfortable. & Amp;

< p > — & and I ? did I feel my own when your life was falling, and I left everything to save you ? & & & Amp; MDASH; I answered.

< p > said nothing.

< p > only sighed quietly and hung up.

< p > I have not been with them since then.

< p > I haven't seen my granddaughter for three months.

< p > I don't want to impose myself.

< p > but every day I ask myself:

< p > How easy it is to erase someone's presence when you no longer need ?

< p > today I sit in an empty apartment, with family photography on a dresser.

< p > in the photo smiling & ndash; I, son, his wife, grandson on my lap.

< p > frozen image of something that was supposed to be permanent.

< p > but the family, which & oacute; rej foundation is only convenience, quickly crumbles.

< p > I don't regret that I helped them.

< p > because the good does not always come back in the form in which we expect it. < p > but it hurts. < p > hurts when the heart, which & oacute; gave everything, is closed behind a foreign door. < p > and no one will even ask how it feels.

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