Taken from life. “Some men decide to get married within a month, and others at all”: I don't understand it

I met Krzysiek in the third year of my studies. I was a very attractive girl – many boys were hanging around me. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/9c1df2/620x0/1/0/2025/02/17/lwwcfjlxbtuzp7b1wnnodnodgzfsfbssxhthej.jpg" alt = "Bride, source: pexels" Style = "background-color: rgba (160,158,162.0.61)" > < p > chosen & oacute; r was more than enough, but for some reason I chose him and I still can't give the logical explanation of my decision.

< p > I think he won my heart and darken M & oacute; j mind. There is no other explanation why I endured him for ten and p & oacute; He is charismatic and knows how to play on the feelings of others. < p > just before graduating from the studies & oacute; in I learned that I was expecting a child. Initially, Krzysiek accepted this message calmly. The arguments seemed reasonable — We did not have permanent income & oacute; in, apartments and we were still children. However, I did not share his fears. I confronted him with the fact that I intend to give birth.

< P >From the beginning he chose the first option & MDASH; He left me pregnant and even started a new relationship. My mother comforted me, M & oacute; But I really loved him and believed that one day he would come to his senses and our child's and our child. When Krzysiek's mother learned that the Ocute; TCe became a grandmother, she began to contact me actively. We hardly talked before.

< p > helped me with everything and supported me as she could. She even bought me & oacute; Żeczko and in & oacute; for her own money, although she worked as an ordinary hairdresser! She felt her son for his weakness, the & oacute; she was teaching him, heir to him. I asked her not to interfere in it and explain that I would raise my son myself. I don't need his mercy, but Elizabeth is a woman of an old date. She assured me that a child should be brought up in a full family, and our ambitions should be hidden in our pocket. < P >It happened as she wanted. Krzysiek picked up me and my son from the hospital and since then we lived together. I still loved him and thought that my feelings were reciprocated.

< p > he showered me with attention, care and gave me flowers for every holiday. My happiness had no limits — I even avoided homemade Kł & oacute; The only thing that disturbed me was the fact that we lived “in sin”. Krzysiek did not hurry with the proposals, claiming that the stamp in the papers means nothing. Conversations with the mother -in -law R & oacute; did not bring positive results. He did not want to marry, believing that the wedding would only bring the misfortune to our family.

< P >I almost came to terms with the fate of being a lover forever. I have many of my friends & oacute; work, work colleagues and friends have long married. My mother raised me in the belief that the girl should wear a white dress once in her life. I dreamed of a wedding and did not understand why M & Amp; Oacute; J cohabite was against the formal relationship. < p > friend and former friend Krzysiek opened my eyes. He explained where he got his dislike of the wedding — He was a man who loves freedom and did not want to be associated with one woman. The whole department, and even some & custom clients visited my “beloved” in & oacute; Żku. Dop & oacute; there is no stamp in the papers, there is no wife, there is no woman who is responsible for whom & oacute; This is how Krzysiek worked. < p > Of course, after this message, I left it. Six months took me to recover after this relationship. I met Aleksa in the supermarket. He immediately surprised me with his sensitivity and honesty. During the month of our relationship, he managed to tell me his biography, meet my mother (it was his initiative) and get along with my son. < p > Last week he made an official wedding proposal. He thinks that a white dress will suit me very much! When I asked Aleks why he proposed to me so quickly, he knew me for just over a month, he replied ironically: “Did you want to wait another 10 years ?” Now I choose the most beautiful wedding dress and I am preparing to become the happiest wife! < P >< Strong > look: from life taken. “C & oacute; Rka gave the apartment to her granddaughter and lived with me”: I did not invite her

< P >< Strong > Do not miss: from life taken. “I have always treated my daughter -in -law like C & Amp; Oacute; RKA”: She took my son and threw me out of his life