Taken from life. “My husband wants me to move to his hometown”: he says that we have a duty to help his parents

When I got married, I thought I was starting my life, which would be ours – common, new, full of compromises. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/ad0cd7/620x0/1/0/2025/03/24/hpqjvedvkzefgnvgcy5ogi5ogi4h2nfh09PGQgcbubh.jpg" alt = "woman @pexels" styles = "background-color: rgba (149,139,114.1)" > < p > but every day since we became married, I felt more and more clearly that I was just an addition to his plan.

< p > and this plan did not include me & hellip; only his parent & oacute; in, his family home, his village.

< p > — We must move — He said suddenly at dinner, as if it were the simplest thing in the world.

< p > — Carry out & Hellip; where ? — I asked, although I felt the answer.

< p > — To my mother. I need help. Dad can't do it anymore. And this is our duty. < p > our duty ?

< P > Do I ride a village, field and chickens ?

< p > It was not about the place.

< p > I'm not of those who & oacute; they despise a simple life.

< p > but nobody asked me if I wanted it.

< P >Nobody asked if I was ready to give up work, friends & ł, everyday life, which & oacute; I barely built myself.

< p > because he has already made the decision.

< p > — It's just a few years. Then we can be & oacute; cić.

< p > Only that I do not want to wait until my life passes between planting potato & oacute; in cooking soup for my mother -in -law.

< p > We started Kłu & Amp; Oacute; Cić. < p > day after day.

< p > I cried, he was silent.

< p > or m & oacute; wind:

< p > — I don't meet you. I thought you were a woman with values.

< p > then I understood that in his opinion love is that I subordinate myself.

< p > and my & ampquo; no & rdquo; means egoism. < p > I went there.

< p > for one day.

< p > small, stuffy house.

< p > mother -in -law, who looked at me and said:

< p > — You are finally coming back. Here is your place.

< p > not ours at all.

< p > his.

< p > I was always only & my son's wife < p > and never more.

< p > in the evening I looked into his eyes.

< p > — I will not move there.

< p > — So you will leave me alone with all this ?

< p > — NO. But I will not let you take my life, which we did not build a good time.

< p > because marriage is not a dedication of one person for the convenience of the other.

~ P > this is the road, not moving one way.

< p > today we are on the bend.

< p > maybe he will go away.

< p > maybe it will.

< p > but I know one thing:

< p > I didn't get married to forget who I am.

< p > and I will not serve anyone just because & so you need &