Taken from life. “My husband celebrated on February 14 with his ex, and he doesn't want me”: he says he has unpleasant memories

I quarreled with my husband about Valentine's Day. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/574cd3/620x0/1/0/2025/02/14/grnt1gpirdpuailgq2iojoj80e6zepxbhsa1itl3z3.jpg" alt = "disappointed wife, source: pixabay" styles = "background-color: rgba (27,27,27,1)" > < p > said he didn't want to celebrate them, dot. And you know, the fact does not annoy me, but its explanation. M & oacute; that he once celebrated this holiday with his wife, because she just loved such things. And then they divorced and with scandals, so now he only associates this day with unpleasant memories. And you know what ? in my ass I have his marriage past!

< p > We were together three years — A year of dating, two marriages. Sometimes it was good, sometimes it's hard, but we got used to each other, because we are no longer young lovers who have no traumatic experiences behind them.

< p > It is also my second marriage, but with my ex -my former part I parted peacefully — We just realized that our roads were spreading. But the husband and his ex -wife went through all the stages of full drama & oacute; in divorce: Kłu & Oacute; accusations, truce, new scandals.

< P >I understood it, so I tried to avoid everything that could hurt him. I did not even darist the hair in the dark color, although I had long wanted it because I knew that it would remind him of it.

< p > – you can fall out in front of him ? – my mother murmured. PR & oacute; I was to explain that M & Amp; Oacute; Wi nonsense. Love has long burned out, he only had negative memories. Why would I press again on the sore place ? My mother only raised myself and said that I would convince myself.

< p > I began to notice that M & Amp; Oacute; Jer still mentions his ex. “M & oacute; hang like her”, “you behave like her”, “you are just as controlling.” No matter what I did, there was always an analogy. It was really annoying. M & oacute; he was about her as if she were the personification of evil. And he was still at her & oacute; But the last dot above and were Valentine's Day. < p > I did not ask for anything extraordinary — Just for a romantic dinner in a nice atmosphere. I booked a table in a restaurant, bought a gift and told my husband not to plan anything on this evening & oacute; 60 ~/p > < p > However, it looks like my mother was right. M & oacute; Je husband still lives in the past, and I am only his “convenient option”. I love him, but if he doesn't change, my feelings may also disappear. < P >< Strong > Do not miss: The presidential campaign of Karol Nawrocki raises doubts. What next in the face of the allegation < P >< Strong > look: New news from Barbara Kurdej-Szatan. What is the future of the game show “wonderful years”