Taken from life. “After the divorce, my husband did not contact his son and did not pay maintenance”: now he does not understand why his son does not respect him

Our divorce was very nasty. My husband divided everything, literally everything. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/7cb0a4/620x0/1/0/2025/02/17/fan0dei05ok1vqpfzcrbywxgijvujujugibbbrbbrbrbb.jpg" alt = "mother with son, source: pixabay" styles = "background-color: rgba (149,122,91,1)" > < p > counted the forks, demanded to pay him for half the microwave, he took half the bedding.

< P >He also took half of his son's toys, claiming that they belonged to him. He didn't care that a six -year -old child was standing in front of him and cries. He went to his mistress, and she came with him several times to help him to move everything he decided to take. I couldn't understand what a person was. He wants to tie his life with this crumbling man. And if they divorce, he will also be willing to share things with her. In her place I would leave such a man after the first such scene. < p > Unfortunately I did not have such an opportunity, I learned from mistakes, I was surprised that he took some of my son's toys. As a mother, I would not let my child play with toys that were taken to someone else. Divine & oacute; d was a hell for my psyche. M & oacute; j son of R & oacute; he survived it very much, and I tried to support him and get up from this apathy. After all, my husband does not leave me for his lover every day.

< P >I had to apply to the court for alimony, because the man who promised to pay them voluntarily, quickly withdrew from it. He always had some important expenses, and his son was not enough. I won the case and my husband was awarded alimony, but I had to pull them through the bailiff & oacute; w. It is true that bailiffs could not often be a pomp; c, but it was a matter of rules.

< p > m & oacute; j son and I gathered ourselves and we still lived as if my ex -husband was never in our family. I worked, M & Amp; Oacute; J son studied and went to additional classes. Father, who always hid, never visited his son, did not even call. Maybe it was better so that the son would not remember his biological father. < p > This year the son ends the last class. He is already a big boy, his mother's pride. I am really proud of my son. He is a good athlete, he learns well, he is not rude, he helps me at home without discussion. And recently I am even more proud of him, because he reacted with dignity to his neglecting father, which & oacute; ry decided to show.

< P >Without a scandal, without a swimming, he just sent him in a known direction and closed the door. It turned out that this traitor also broke up with his new woman, but the trick that used to use me, did not work on her. She threw him out with one suitcase and said that if she wasn't alone, her brother would clearly explain everything. It is a pity that I do not have such support. But I am glad that M & Amp; Oacute; j were finally a decent answer.

< p > My mother -in -law told me about it, but of course through the prism of indignation at the actions of another former daughter -in -law. “You parted amicably like people, and she …” she said emotionally when she came to visit her grandson. I nodded, I did not develop the conversation in any way & oacute; because I was not interested, and in the evening that the former husband came on the same day. He wanted to congratulate his son's end of school, for so many years in the og & Oacute; LE did not talk to his son, and then something happened, he came to congratulate him personally. < p > I called my son, he looked at his father, told him what he thought about him, closed the door and went to his room, and M & oacute; j were throughout the evening & oacute; r wrote to me what I am a bad mother, raising a naughty boy. I was happy to agree with my son, then I marked my ex -husband's number as spam. < P >< Strong > look: from life taken. “C & oacute; Rka gave the apartment to her granddaughter and lived with me”: I did not invite her

< P >< Strong > Do not miss: from life taken. “I have always treated my daughter -in -law like C & Amp; Oacute; RKA”: She took my son and threw me out of his life