From real life. “Mother, in her old age, decided to have an affair and moved to another city”: She categorically refuses to help me and my daughter

Four months ago I got divorced. My beloved husband turned out to be a tyrant and jealous.

My daughter has nothing to do with my second husband. She is fourteen years old and although she is already completely independent, she is still a child. So the two of us turned to the only person who could help us. But it turned out that Grandma didn't care that her only granddaughter was literally living on the street!

My mom lives in another city now. She moved there seven years ago. There's a weird story behind it. My mom somehow found her ex-classmate, who was also her first love, through social media and went to see him. It turned out that despite being married and having kids, they only ever loved each other.

They have been living together since then. This man has an apartment. He earns a good living and generally my mother is doing well. Here, in our city, my mother still has an apartment. We rented it and at least we had some extra income. But my mother's apartment is quite far away. My daughter has to take the bus to school for forty minutes. It also takes me almost an hour to get to work.

We are not at all happy with this option. And the apartment, to be honest, is so-so. It has not been renovated for a long time, the house is old and poorly maintained. There is an unpleasant smell in the stairwell all the time. I suggested to my mother that she sell the apartment and buy a new one. I agreed to add the money myself, but my mother is stubborn and does not want to agree to anything. She doesn't even want to hear about selling her apartment.

Whenever I bring this up, my mom starts crying that if her boyfriend falls out of love tomorrow, she'll be left with nothing. So she'll feel more comfortable if she knows she has her own apartment somewhere. And what about me? I want an apartment too. But unlike my mother, I'm not mad about it, I'm thinking about my daughter's and my future. I've been trying to convince my mother for months!

I have nowhere to go, and my mom pretends she has nothing to do with it and it doesn't concern her! We had a fight yesterday too. I blocked my mother's phone number. I'm not going to contact her anymore.

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