Nowadays, the strength of the mother's love for grandchildren depends on the degree of financial support that her children can provide < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/c9f646/620x0/1/0/2025/02/19/lbojvkhdqt8dosaw7uficd3l1xsnribri5jngt8h.png" alt = "mother, source: pexels" styles = "background-color: rgba (123,134,107,1)" > < P >This is the concept of my beloved mother. I'm ashamed to admit, but it's true. I got used to the fact that M & Amp; Oacute; J brother was always the best for my mother. I thought that in adulthood it was not so noticeable, but I was wrong. My mother still puts my brother's family in the first place because he has the opportunity to help my mother financially.
< p > m & oacute; j brother is ten years older than me. He now has a good position, which & oacute; allows him to support his wife on maternity leave and help his mother. Unfortunately, we do not have such an opportunity. M & oacute; Jej and me with great effort we pay off the mortgage, and I just finished maternity leave and started working. But my mother does not seem to understand this, constantly giving an example of my older brother. He also had a wife on maternity leave, but he never forgot about her. And I have never forgotten either. Only the husband is ten years younger than my brother and physically not m & oacute; get such a career and earn such money, and I was on maternity leave with twins.< P >A lot of money is needed for children for children, plus a mortgage, plus a mortgage. My brother's family lives in his wife's apartment, so they have another minus one expense. And they only have one child. M & oacute; j brother earns more because he has more experience, has no mortgage and has only one child. In early spring, my mother said that she retired and wants to spend summer on the plot, so we could send her children, her summer house is more than a place of relaxation than a garden.
< P >We were happy, this would allow us to work on P & Amp; Oacute; and not have to sit with children on vacation. We waited for May like in childhood for Christmas. In April, snow fell and my mother went to see what was going on in the garden. It turned out that the fence needs to be replaced. Either someone entered them or collapsed from old age, but in general the fence required replacement.
< p > workers demanded 20,000 for the fence. It was simply unattainable for us. That's what I told my mother. She clenched her mouth, but she said nothing. I thought the topic was closed. He was already May and I called my mother to ask her plans for bringing children, and my mother said her plans have changed, so she wouldn't be able to sit with the children. It was obviously unpleasant, but somehow we will go through it, we could do something else ? and I would not be offended, even if my mother did not post photos from the plot where she was with her brother's child. Here a grandson in flowers, here a grandson with a cat, everything is clear, and in the background a new fence.< p > You don't even have to guess who paid for the fence. The mother herself certainly does not have such money, she probably decided that children of poverty had nothing to do in her paradise garden. So she decided to take care of the kid of her wonderful son, even though my brother can easily afford to rent a nanny as a security.
< p > my last illusion that my mother will be at least to treat her grandchildren at least R & oacute; He doesn't have time or take care of my children, but he cares about my brother's child. So it should not be surprised that only one grandson of the TR & oacute; jki will contact her.
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