My sister, although she formally lives with our mother, is actually more a burden than support. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/d17a55/620x0/1/0/2025/02/24/barapt9MBPCPPRM9CAFVVO5ggku7fh1v9zywk9oi.png" alt = "Sisters, source: pexels" Style = "background-color: rgba (180,169,159.1)" > < P >Although my mother is retired, she must keep her youngest C & Amp; Oacute; RKA, which is already thirty years old and is unable to stand on her feet. Over the years, my sister used the benefits of life with her mother, never undertaking a serious work or not to find her career path. Our mother devoted a lot of time and energy to ensuring her education, but the effects of this effort are minimal.

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< p > An interesting moment in the history of my sister was her kr & tki marriage episode. After the dw & oacute; it turned out that her husband was unable to bear the laziness and the lack of his wife's ambition. Division & o vag; At that time, the mother of the PR & Oacute; was forgiving, explaining to herself and others that C & Amp; Oacute; Rka was undergoing a difficult period after divorce. However, the reality was different & ndash; She was a person in need of support.

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< P >Recently, our mother decided to sell a three -room apartment in which we spent many years as a family. My mother wanted to reduce the cost of living and move to a smaller premises. For me it was a chance that my sister would finally stand on her own legs. However, for her, this decision became an inflammatory point.

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< p > Sister began to protest, claiming that she deserves a greater participation in her mother's property only because she lives with her and “looks after” her. This situation shows not only her egoism, but also a deep lack of understanding for real people in the lives of adult people. My mother clearly made it clear that she can take care of herself and does not need the help of c & oacute; rki.

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< p > This event prompted me to think about the role of adult children in the life of their parent & oacute; Are we really obliged to take care of them ? or maybe we should strive for them to live independently ? I think that responsibility for life belongs to each of us and it is worth encouraging loved ones to act and make decisions instead of being duration in still.

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< p > The story of my sister and our mother shows the complicated relationship between the guardian and the person in need of support. It is worth remembering that true love and care often require difficult choices and courage to act. Every adult should be able to shape his life himself.

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Natasha Kumar

By Natasha Kumar

Natasha Kumar has been a reporter on the news desk since 2018. Before that she wrote about young adolescence and family dynamics for Styles and was the legal affairs correspondent for the Metro desk. Before joining The Times Hub, Natasha Kumar worked as a staff writer at the Village Voice and a freelancer for Newsday, The Wall Street Journal, GQ and Mirabella. To get in touch, contact me through my natasha@thetimeshub.in 1-800-268-7116