I have always dreamed that when I became a grandmother, I would be able to share love, experience and peace. That I will be helpful but also respected. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/385e03/620x0/1/0/2025/03/25/okfjztqcu0pa0pavqkkeezsnyhov8iuazgtmxwkl alt = "grandmother and granddaughter @pexels" styles = "background-color: rgba (168,135,115,1)" > < p > When my grandchildren were born, my heart melted.
< p > I was ready to give them everything. Time, energy, patience. < p > but I wasn't ready that my daughter -in -law would make me someone between a maid and a nanny without a voice.< p > — & AMP; Bdquo; Mom, Agnieszka has a wr & oacute; to work. You can pom & oacute; c with children ? & rdquo; & Amp; MDASH; asked the son.
< p > Of course I could.
< p > I gave up a trip to the sanatorium, from a yoga lesson, from evening meetings with friends. < p > because the family is the most important. < p > I came every day.< p > I dealt with grandchildren from morning to evening. I cooked, bathed, put it to sleep.
< p > but it was enough that I said:
< p > — & bdquo; maybe it's time to set aside fairy tales and play with something creative ? & ~ rdquo;
< P >And the daughter -in -law reacted immediately:
< p > — & AMP; BDQUO; Please do not interfere in upbringing. We know what we are doing. & Amp;
< p > It was getting worse every day.
< p > when m & oacute; I said that children eat too much sweets – I heard that I am old -fashioned.
< p > when PR & oacute; I bind to teach my granddaughter to tie shoes & ndash; I learned that & now children learn differently &.< p > When I hugged my grandson after he cried, Agnieszka only threw:
< p > — & AMP; BDQUO; Don't teach him weakness. ” < p > but I was still supposed to be available. Every day. Without exception.
< p > One day, when I was tired after the research and said that I would come p & oacute; I heard:< p > — & but like it ? we have a planned day. You can't fail us. < p > fail ?
< p > I ?
< p > a woman who has been put off everything for a year to be on each of their calls ?< p > I burst.
< p > I took a coat, looked at my daughter -in -law and said quietly, but probably:< p > — & AMP; BDQUO; I am a grandmother, not a servant. And if you do not respect my presence, I will not be. < p > grandchildren tug me.
< p > Son said nothing.
< p > and she & hellip; just shrugged.< p > from that day they have not called.
< p > did not ask how I feel.
< p > maybe they think that the wr & oacute; with a tail stuck.
< p > but not Wr & oacute; cę.
< p > because if someone does not see the value in my heart, then learn what it means to give without expectations.
< p > because I gave everything.
< p > but I will not give up.