Five years have passed since my wife went out. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/e0e114/620x0/1/0/2025/04/25/ujpnuygrPlev6adzxcrwff4oncppptl1zzfforfje.jpg" alt = "from life taken. & Amp; Quot; I found love after years of mourning": but she set the condition: you choose me or a child " styles = "background-color: rgba (74.75.56.1)" > < p > I will not say: & ampquo; left & rdquo;. Because not & ndash; She went out like a candle with a sharp gust of wind. Cancer took everything away from us & ndash; Cooperation plans, spok & oacute; j, conversations about nothing before bedtime. < p > I was a father, mother, chef, friend, teacher. I wore grapes to school instead of sweets, I learned to tie a tie for a school appeal, I cried at night in a pillow so that he would not see.

< p > but life goes on – And although I did not allow myself to think that I would love to love someone & hellip; I met Marta.

< P >She was warm, smiling, mature. M & oacute; she admired how I managed after the loss. That not every man has so much strength. And I finally felt that I am knowing & in I am for someone more than just & ampquo; dad Daniel & rdquo;.

< p > We approached each other. Slowly. Carefully. After a year she lived with us. At first, everything seemed to be arranged. Daniel was quiet but polite. Marta & ndash; The current, though less and less patient. She began to throw remarks: < br /> & bdquo; You remember ? &

< p > one day, after a small quarrel between them, she told me something that got into me like n & oacute; Ż:

< p > & ndash; Either I or him. I will not share my life with you if he is always in the first place. < br /> & amp. It's not a child anymore. He is ten years old, he can handle it. I am your future.

< p > I froze.

< p > I knew women who loved for convenience. I knew those who were afraid of other people's children. But I didn't think I would have to choose. Not between the two loves & ndash; but between love and duty.

< p > I went out to the balcony. Daniel was on the yard. He played football alone, as often recently. He looked at G & Amp; Oacute; and waved. And then I realized that everything I need, I have there & ndash; in his eyes.

< P > Wr & oacute; to the living room. Marta stood with arms folded.

< p > & ndash; You choose ? & ndash; she asked cold.

< p > I nodded.

< p > & ndash; Yes. I choose my son. < br /> because it is not he who puts me the conditions. < br /> He is not he who takes something from me. < br /> he is every day, even after losing his mother, he believed that dad would never leave. < /p >

Natasha Kumar

By Natasha Kumar

Natasha Kumar has been a reporter on the news desk since 2018. Before that she wrote about young adolescence and family dynamics for Styles and was the legal affairs correspondent for the Metro desk. Before joining The Times Hub, Natasha Kumar worked as a staff writer at the Village Voice and a freelancer for Newsday, The Wall Street Journal, GQ and Mirabella. To get in touch, contact me through my natasha@thetimeshub.in 1-800-268-7116