Guest this Tuesday morning on the set of Chez Jordan on C8, a show presented by Jordan De Luxe, Guy Carlier, father of Raphaël aka Carlito in the heart ;the famous duo of French YouTubers McFly & Carlito, mentioned with emotion his complicated relationship with his son.
Carlito suffered from the way others looked at his father
If you didn't know it yet, the 74-year-old writer and columnist Guy Carlier is the father of Carlito, the famous YouTuber from the duo McFly & Carlito. His son, whose name in real life is Raphaël, has often spoken about his complicated relationship with his father in his videos. He notably confided in on the suffering he had experienced as a child regarding the way others viewed Guy Carlier's overweight. On YouTube, Carlito declared: “Have you ever done this? seen someone who weighs 250 kg? I never told him because it's mean but 'heal yourself before you deal with me'“.
Faced with the images, Guy Carlier explained that “the image is was unbearable” :
When I took him to school, I left him at school. two streets from the school. We never talked about it. I fell from the cupboard upon learning that he suffered so much.
And to add that his son had toû confided about it when he became famous because “he must have been afraid” to talk about it to others. his father. A regret that the chronicler has felt since he discovered what his son had in mind regarding his father's illness. However, for one who has been Marc-Olivier Fogiel's sidekick every Sunday evening on France 3, it's time for mea culpa:
I didn't know how to be a father. I was immature. I think that when you are immature, it is difficult to be a father. Raphaël is a child of love. It's not an accident. We had a bond. in humor, in music, … Everything fell apart. because he suffered.
A peaceful relationship between Guy Carlier and Carlito, but…
Before adding that today, the relationship that 'he lives with his son is “peaceful”. Without hiding his face, the guest by Jordan De Luxe knows thatit will take time to complete Carlito but that doesn't mean they don't write each otherwhile emphasizing thatit is complicated to do so. for his son to spend “as it is at home“:
I have a lot of trouble at home. to see him. There is no rejection, there is no tension.
Guy Carlier concludes the interview by declaring:
I always thought that the love of a father for a son is untouchable. What I simply want to tell him is that this is the failure of my life. I would like to tell parents that you cannot repeat the past. Pay attention to children and be attentive to them. the image you give.
A moving message to you. destination of all fathers. And to discover the incredible challenge that McFly & Carlito, it's here.