I listened to my daughter who categorically explained to me why I had to pay for the renovation of the house of her in -laws. < img src = "https://zycie.news/crrops/ed236f/620x0/1/0/2025/02/21/by0yuwsw29vzuswmc3fswd5ie3s2awirmzssulon.jpg" alt = "mother, source: pexels" styles = "background-color: rgba (84.79.69.1)" > < p > Her voice sounded on tense, almost annoyed, as if I had already promised & oacute; c, but suddenly changed her mind and thus destroyed all her plans.
< p > I understand everything. I have lived in Italy for a long time, I have been working there for many years. I come home only once a year during the holidays. I have my own apartment in Warsaw. My C & Amp; Oacute; Rka R & Amp; Oacute; Has a one -room apartment, which rents, and the money spends on himself “mdash; for some & oacute; reel treatments, clothes, cosmetics.
< p > Of course, this money is not enough for the renovation of the house in -laws & oacute; w. And now my C & Amp; Oacute; Rka M & Amp; Oacute; Wi that I have to pay for everything. He estimates that the renovation will cost 70-80 thousand. This is a huge amount of money. < p > I just don't know how to react. On the one hand, my C & Amp; Oacute; Rka and granddaughter live there. On the other hand, this is not M & Amp; Oacute; J house and I do not understand why I should invest in it< P >-Mamo, you understand! We live here, this is our home. I can't raise a child in such conditions. The pipes are leaking, the walls are cracking, the roof will collapse. You have been in Italy for so many years, you don't feel sorry for us ?
< p > I took a deep breath. I was sorry, of course. But a picture appeared in my head: I washed the floors to other people, cooked for others, saved every euro to pay off the loan for the apartment of my C & Amp; Oacute; Rki, which rented. A flat that could be her shelter, instead of spending money on manicure and new dresses.
< P >-I don't work to deposit money into other people's walls. You have a nice apartment. If it's so difficult for you, why you don't move there ? Silence on the other side of the line. Then I heard her quiet, almost accusing voice:
< p >-You just don't care, mom. I have a small child, I need help and you are like that. You live your life in Italy and you don't even think about us.
< p > these words hurt like nails. I knew she wasn't quite right, but I felt that there was no way to convince her now. She hung up without saying goodbye. I have been wondering what to do for weeks. How can I solve this issue without destroying the relationship with C & Amp; Oacute; and not allowing it to turn me into a source of money for the needs of other people.
< p > with time C & Oacute; Rka changed thinking and asked for money to renovate her apartment. For me it was a completely different conversation. I gladly helped, and I thank me until now.
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